Can You Trust Your Gut Feeling?

In life, we sometimes make critical and trivial decisions based on our intuition. But how can we be sure our lack of deliberation serves our interests? Are we better off without a lengthy thought-process? Shoot from the hip more often? In ‘Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking,’ Malcolm Gladwell explores these and other questions, providing insights on the quality, or lack thereof, of these brief yet critical and often trivial decisions.

At its core, Blink is about intuitive decision-making. Gladwell explores a plethora of situations where we have limited information yet our decisions formed based on those thin slices of data will often lead to accurate or beneficial outcomes. Therefore, decisions made very quickly can be every bit as good as decisions made cautiously and after long deliberation. 

To illustrate his concept, he tells the story of Paul Van Riper, a retired Marine Corps general known for his unconventional strategies. Van Riper became the leading figure during the Millennium Challenge 2002 military exercise, which was designed to explore critical warfighting challenges at the operational level of war that will confront United States joint military forces after 2010. Van Riper oversaw the hostile forces during the exercise. Instead of following established military protocol, he deliberately chose to rely on his intuition, experience, and simple but effective strategies. In contrast, his opponent chose to follow established military strategies, data-heavy analytics, and to rely on technology. Van Riper communicated with his team using basic methods like motorcycle couriers and coded signals, bypassing his opponent’s forces’ sophisticated surveillance tools. His quick, decisive actions—guided by gut instincts rather than exhaustive deliberation—allowed him to exploit his opponent’s forces’ rigidity and outmaneuver them, achieving unexpected victories in the early stages of the exercise. Gladwell highlights the paralyzing effects of over-analyzing, deliberation, and adherence to military hierarchy. Van Riper leveraged a decentralized command structure allowing his forces to act autonomously when his opponent expected coordination. However, Gladwell also cautions the reader to exclusively rely on intuition, but rather make context and skill-based decisions. Van Riper leveraged a combination of experience, skill and bravado to achieve his results. Therefore, context and skill-set of the decision-maker determine the speed at which a decision can be made.

And this contradiction is my main problem with Blink. By and large, it’s a book that builds a case for trusting your gut and making rapid decisions. On the other hand, Gladwell cautions against making rapid decisions depending on the context and the decision-maker. But, how can we refine our intuition to mitigate possible failure? How can we better identify context when thin-slicing advocates against analysis? And, when can we be sure we are sufficiently competent to be the decision-maker for the situation-at-hand rather than merely supremely confident? Blink leaves these questions largely unanswered. Gladwell oversimplifies the complexity around our cognitive abilities and the psychological depths of our biases to an extent that it contradicts him. Personally, I would have preferred fewer stories with more depth and explanation. In addition, I would have preferred a clearer structure outlining intuitive decision-making, long deliberation, and an overview of potential biases that prevent or support either.  

I read Blink in parallel to Talking To Strangers, which helped to see the broader context of Gladwell’s thinking when he wrote these books. The latter struck me as more developed, thought-out, and polished. The former reads more like a raw compendium of psychological theories applied to real life stories. This density of everything makes it a formidable base for further idea exploration, but altogether it seemed capricious to ask the reader to switch context time and again. For example on the importance of contempt, he introduces the concept of the Four Horsemen of Marriage as theorized by American psychologist John M. Gottman. In other publications, Gladwell would offer a basic understanding of the concept of discussion before diving into a specific element of it, but in Blink, he rarely brings along the reader before moving on to the next concept. Gottman’s theory embraced criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling as the most destructive and biggest predictors of divorce and separation. 

Would I recommend it? If you can get a copy for under $10, I’d recommend it. Any other price exposes Blink to other publications, e.g. Think Again by Adam Grant, which is more recent, clear and more comprehensive. 

Talking To Strangers

My folks have an everyday expression that goes ‘assumptions make an ass out of you and me‘. I’d get to hear it when I made a spur of the moment decision. Malcolm Gladwell compounded powerful stories in Talking To Strangers to outline the communication dynamic behind assumptions, our preconceived notions, and he explains why we sometimes misunderstand one another.

Talking To Strangers begins and ends with the events surrounding the case of Sandra Bland. She was pulled over for a minor traffic violation. Both, State Trooper Brian Encinia and Sandra Bland misunderstood, misread, and misinterpreted each other, which led to Bland’s arrest and subsequent passing while in jail. Her story illustrates the complexity of human interaction and our personal responsibilities and burdens that often elude even our closest confidants. At the core of this book, Gladwell states our default understanding about a strangers intentions, emotions, and honesty is fundamentally flawed. This isn’t so much an individual shortcoming, but a systemic issue that traces back to psychological bias and perverted societal incentives.

Another example is about Ana Montes, a former senior analyst at the Defense Intelligence Agency, who was convicted for espionage after deceiving her superiors for 17 years. Montes leaned into confirmation bias of her superiors, who did not want to view her as a potential traitor. Her behavior was understood as normal for a person in her position, which led to overlooking bright, red flags visible to outsiders and those critical of her actions.

Bland and the State Trooper Encinia were strangers. Montes and her superiors were close confidants. Both examples illustrate our default to truth mindset often leads to catastrophic misunderstandings. Bernie Madoff, Elizabeth Holmes or Sam Bankman-Fried are only a few names on a long list of people who used our default trust to one up society.

So, what does it mean for our communication and engagement with people? Gladwell remains undecided about a clear position whether to trust or not trust by default. Instead he advocates for a calibrated approach towards trust. Believing someone is a necessity of society, but being aware of blind spots in our biases and systems around communication is crucial too. Especially high pressure or unusual decisions should receive more critical review, empathy and patience. For example, when a gas station clerk informs you about a traffic accident with the intent to save you time, the harm of following his advice is insignificant compared to your children making a case for their share of inheritance. The latter clearly requires more thought, awareness of biases, and potentially detaching yourself from emotions before reaching a decision.

Malcolm Gladwell has a wonderful writing style. He writes in simple terms, illustrates complex theories with visual storylines, and wraps it with a current event ribbon and the scent of society’s latest pulse. This simplicity sometimes results in moral and conceptual ambiguity leaving the reader unclear about the specifics of a concept or theory but also Gladwell’s personal position on an issue.

Nevertheless, I tend to enjoy his works. I enjoy learning about different psychological and human concepts without expanding an inordinate amount of brain energy. Plus, his critical review of current and historic events invites any interested reader to explore beyond the confines of Talking To Strangers.